Welcome to Born Bicultural USA

9 01 2010

Born Bicultural USA is a blog for curious thinkers to gather for a constructive and respectful dialogue on racial diversity in the United States.  The purpose of Born Bicultural USA is to gain understanding through sharing.

I believe this dialogue is valuable because: 

  1. Biculturals can feel misunderstood and even isolated
  2. Everyone has a fundamental desire to be understood and included

From my first breath, I encountered an existence that has been Hispanic and American, Black and White.  Balancing these colors and cultures has provided a unique experience.  I’ll share mine.  Please share yours. 

Note: You don’t have to be “Born-Bicultural” to contribute to this important dialogue.  All curious thinkers of every color and culture are welcomed. 

For a list of blog topics being discussed on Born Bicultural USA, please click here.





When in Rome, Do You

14 01 2013

Roll Tide! Go Irish! Roll Tide!! Go Irish!! Roll Tide!!! Go Irish!!!

The chants echoed loud and proud on this early January night in Miami.  40 THOUSAND Alabama fans packed the house.  Another 40 THOUSAND Notre Dame fans filled out the balance of Sun Life Stadium.

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So there I was, the odd fan out, wearing my FIU school colors, gold and blue.  As I walked around the stadium before kick-off, the atmosphere was charged.  Both fan bases were dreaming of a championship glory and both were definitely having tons of fun supporting their respective school.  I wanted in on the fun.  Despite some early hesitation, I decided to purchase a t-shirt.  I figured “when in Rome.”  Besides, the t-shirt would be a nice memento of my first ever national championship game while at the same time allowing me to join one of the team’s infectious enthusiasm.

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I couldn’t purchase an Alabama t-shirt because that team was lead by Miami’s public enemy number one, Nick Saban.  So that left Notre Dame.  I overpaid for their shirt, put it on and did a lap around the stadium prior to kick-off.  The next thing you know, Notre Dame fans from every direction are chanting “Go Irish” and confused by my lack of participation.  I just couldn’t do it.  I’m not Irish. My only connection to Notre Dame is the fact that their school colors are similar to my alma mater’s colors.  I went from FIU odd-fan out to Irish imposter.  To add insult to injury, Notre Dame got rolled by The Tide of Alabama.  So much for joining the fun.  The lesson: when in Rome, do you. From this point forward, any gold and blue I’ll put on will belong to the gold and blue of FIU.

                                                           Go Irish Panthers!

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The Land of Misfit Souls

6 01 2013

Reblogged from Born Bicultural USA:

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"Is he down?"

Growing up in North Jersey and later in Miami, that's the question I would occasionally hear as people searched to understand what's up with the new kid.

Looking back, what they really wanted to know was:

  • Should we accept him?
  • Does he accept us?
  • Does he fit?
  • Or is he a misfit? misfit. misfit...

Makes ya wonder: Am I, are you, are we...misfits?

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The Land of Misfit Souls

4 01 2013
“Is he down?”
Growing up in North Jersey and later in Miami, that’s the question I would occasionally hear as people searched to understand what’s up with the new kid.
Looking back, what they really wanted to know was:
  • Should we accept him?
  • Does he accept us?
  • Does he fit?
  • Or is he a misfit? misfit. misfit…
Makes ya wonder: Am I, are you, are we…misfits?
Dr. Brené Brown, Social Work Researcher and Professor at the University of Houston, suggested in her popular TEDx Talk that:
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“(Human) connection is why we’re here. Connection is what it’s all about. It’s what gives purpose and meaning to our lives. The ability to feel connected is neurobiologically…why we are here…Shame is the fear of disconnection.*”
So if the point is to connect, what connects us? Is it our race, religion, ethnicity or any of the host of ways we organize, slice, dice, label and segment each other?
If like me, you are fortunate to share meaningful connections with folks from a broad spectrum of races, religions, ethnicities, etc., I suspect that your ability to connect may stem from two key factors: (1) shared experiences, and (2) open, curious and respectful minds regarding those experiences you don’t share.
In this land of misfit souls, we may all never fully fit, but if we understand and respect our universal desire to better connect with each other, we all may fit together just fine…and that makes you down in my book.  How ’bout yours?




Oh No He Didn’t! Oh Yes He Did.

5 12 2012

About six years ago, I was at the U.S. headquarters of a major international corporation, located in the southeast. I was there as part of a pitch team.  The advertising agency I was with was attempting to earn this corporation’s portion of their marketing business targeted to the U.S. Hispanic consumer.  The executives we were presenting to were generally warm and friendly, except one guy.  Let’s call him Bill.

Bill was annoyed by his corporation’s decision to invest in minority markets.  Bill made it clear by his inattentiveness that he was disinterested in, if not outright offended by our presentation. We were well into an impassioned and nuanced explanation of the Hispanic experience in the United States.  While we attempted to explain the many dimensions of Hispanic culture, from the colors, foods and flavors to the asymmetrical use of language and media, Bill suddenly slammed down his Blackberry on the conference room table and yelled out in his southern accent, “When do ya just become a freakin’ American?!” Awkward_moment_tshirt-p235746450468288630z7tqq_400-300x300

(Insert long awkward silence here).

Since that fateful day, I can’t help but wonder, “What is an American and when do you become one?”  Bill had clearly defined parameters in his mind as to what an American is and he was pretty adamant that Hispanics, and I suspect any minority group, are not it.  Perhaps more importantly, who choses who we are?  It’s a question of identity, power and control.

And as I widen the lens and witness the demographic shifts impacting politics and business I ask you, are marketers and politicians tasked with understanding who we are or out to ensure we become what they want us to be?

By the way, we won the business, despite Bill.

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Who are These “Hispanics” Everyone’s Talking About?

25 11 2012

A political strategist, a Chief Marketing Officer and a Hispanic marketing expert walk into a bar.  The strategist and the CMO belly up to the bar, then look at each other and say, “We gotta figure out this Hispanic thing.”  The Hispanic marketing expert looks over to them both and declares, “I told you so!”

Okay, so I won’t quit my day job for a career at The Improv.  But hear me out.

The more I examine “Hispanics,” the more I sigh in exhaustion.

Following last month’s election, some political talking heads are saying, almost regrettably, “America is browning.” Like it or not, those that wish to win the Hispanic vote must develop a Hispanic strategy, they say, with the same enthusiasm adults express when they realize grandma was right; we should eat our vegetables.

Over on Wall Street, we know the Titans of Industry are a smart, opportunistic bunch.  The CMO’s understand that the recent election is a proxy for the trends shaping society – or, as they would call it, markets or segments.  If there’s a Hispanic dollar to be had, these are the folks who are incentivized to go get it. However, they are also incentivized to get that dollar while investing as few dollars as possible.

Now enters the Hispanic Marketing Industry, chock-full of research screaming to the world that Hispanics represent the largest and fastest growing minority group in the United States. They tell us Hispanics overuse every form of conceivable media when compared to non-Hispanics.  If that’s not enough to convince the CMO’s to increase their Hispanic marketing budgets, the Hispanic marketing industry continuously reminds us that Hispanic buying powering dwarfs that of many developing nations (According to the November 12th article in Forbes Magazine titled, “America’s Corporations Can No Longer Ignore Hispanic Marketing Like Mitt Romney Did,” they claim “Hispanics will represent $1.5T in purchasing power by 2015.”). I don’t love the inflammatory title, but I’ll save my political exploitation and divisiveness rant for another blog on another day. The point remains: Hispanics have political and economic clout.

So again, who are these Hispanics that politicians, CMOs and Hispanic marketing experts alike keep referring to?

To get an answer, I recently went to where just about every major political candidate since I can recall goes to when attempting to connect with these so-called Hispanics in South Florida: El Versailles Cuban Restaurant in the heart of Little Havana, in the southwest section of Miami, FL.

I sat there with family members.  Some were born in Cuba; some were the children of immigrants while others the grandchildren of immigrants.  Some lived in Caribbean culture-dominated Miami, others in multicultural North Jersey while the balance resides in central Florida, many literal and cultural miles removed from the Latino food, sights and sounds we were experiencing at El Versailles.

Now, who among us were the actual Hispanics that politicians, CMOs and Hispanic marketing experts are talking about? Is it the sister-in-law who spoke the best Spanish? Is it the bilingual cousin who lives in the mostly densely populated Hispanic neighborhood? Is it the family member who was actually born in a Spanish-speaking country but immigrated as a child and prefers English? Is it the older patrons at El Versailles who grew up in a Spanish speaking country but has now spent most of their lives in the United States? Or is it yet another group that can be organized in seemingly endless ways?

All this got me wondering – did Obama earn the Hispanic vote because he specifically addressed something of universal interest to Hispanics OR did he simply earn most of the vote based on a platform that appealed to the majority of the country of which a growing number happen to be Hispanic? The market research and exit polling that the politicians, CMOs and Hispanic marketing experts study don’t always distinguish among these differences.  To some of them, I’m just a Hispanic, as are all those folks at El Versailles, the Hispanic voter and the Hispanic consumer; we’re all lumped together in this singular category called Hispanics. However, understanding the differences may just hold the key insights in how to win over “Hispanics” both in politics as well as business.





Something Funny Happened On My Way Back to Miami…

24 07 2012

Returning from a business trip to the Midwest on Monday, I had one thing on my mind: Getting back home to my uber-Spanglish bicultural existence in Miami.  While at the Detroit airport, I stop into a shop to grab a bottle of water and a pack of gum when out of the corner of my eye I see the current edition of Forbes Magazine, with Sofia Vergara on the cover.  I’m not ready to confess if it was Forbes powerful brand appeal that caught my attention or Sofia.  In either case, I picked up the magazine and thought, “Ha.  That’s cool.  I didn’t realize Forbes had launched a Latino offering.”  A closer look revealed that this was no Latino offering.  This was Forbes general market magazine.  They decided to not just focus on Sofia, because that would be too easy and a cheap way to sell magazines, right?  So they widened the focus to address the Hispanic economic opportunity largely unrealized by U.S. Advertisers and general market media companies.  The headline reads: “The Next Media Jackpot: Murdoch, Comcast and Disney Battle for Control of the $1 Trillion Hispanic Market”

The Next Media Jackpot: Murdoch, Comcast and Disney Battle for Control of the $1 Trillion Hispanic Market

On the one hand, it felt validating.  It made me feel visible in a larger context.  I had a positive reaction to the evidence in my hand that the powerhouses of general market media: Fox, Comcast and Disney, are trying to figure out how to capture my attention, figuratively speaking.  No sooner did I have that ego-stroking reaction, another wave of more cynical reactions emerged.  Thoughts like:

“Oh, now that Murdoch and Mickey are trying to get in, now I’m supposed to feel important?!”

“My momma told me I was special from the first time that baby doctor slapped my brown backside as a newborn.  Are you tryin’ to say that Murdoch and Mickey have greater validating power than my momma?!”

“Forget you, Forbes, and Fox, and the rest of you phonies that are trying to get at us now.  Hispanics have been a force for a while.  What took you soo long?”

Then I took a deep breath, and realized that my conflicting reactions could be classified as clinically insane.  “Easy, Alberto,” I whispered to myself.  I was mixing smart business strategies by media companies with some pent up personal demons I thought I’d exercised.  So I settled down, looked at Sofia on the cover of Forbes and everything felt just fine again.





The American Dream Always Had an Accent

24 03 2012

When I was asked to speak to an audience of small business owners at Miami Dade College this past week, my boss knew I would jump at the shot.  Ya see, I fancy myself a student of public speaking and I’m a bleeding-heart that relishes the opportunity to help anyone, anytime. This was a no-brainer, except for one thing.  I had to deliver my presentation in Spanish.  Sure, I speak conversational Spanish, with an ill-defined accent.  I can yap about music, movies and cuisine all day long, but a professional speech about growing a business?  That elevated the challenge.  I sorta dug that aspect of it.  I was drawn to the fact that I had to stretch outside of my comfort zone if I wanted to provide useful info to this appreciative audience of business owners. So off I went, and discovered that I would learn more about the American Dream than I could ever teach about growing a business.

The audience was compromised of mostly middle-aged Hispanic immigrants with deep accents, humble but hungry to achieve in this foreign land, with its foreign language and laws.  Businesses spanned the spectrum from Child Care Services, to Import/Export, to Landscaping — there were over 30 business owners present.  In their eyes, I saw fear and hope, struggle but determination.  I was inspired by their bravery, not just to leave their land to start anew on our land, but the extra risk they were all willing to endure to fight for their piece of the American Dream.

Later in the week, I was at work.  The founder of Zubi Advertising is being inducted, posthumously, into the Advertising Hall of Fame on Tuesday in New York.  The children of the founder, and current leaders of the agency, shared with us a tribute video they will unveil at the induction ceremony.  It captures the essence of their mother, a Cuban immigrant, with an accent, who founded what has become one of the leading Hispanic advertising agencies in the country.  Over 30 years ago, that could have been her sitting at Miami Dade College, listening to a local professional like myself.  Wow.

This reminds me that we are all connected to humble and hungry immigrants, who may have been scared, but remained hopeful, may have struggled but were determined to get their piece of the American Dream, and they all had an accent, beautiful accents, from all around the world.








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